YOU....young person.......are a scrotum.

Okay, I know you have all seen this, and it would not be fulfilling of my role as an opinionated bastard were I not to hold forth on this.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/get-there/wp/2018/05/24/parents-who-went-to-court-to-evict-their-unemployed-30-year-old-son-did-the-right-thing/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.4e3a71adef59

There is actually a video that goes along with this…..which also doesn’t show the 30 year old in good stead…..I mean, how COULD it?

I graduated high school when I was 17.  Had my parents ALLOWED me to stay past graduation and a day, I would not have DARED.  My Dad was distant and uncaring, something he carried throughout life, through all of his relationships and associations, right to his grave.  To point of fact, at his memorial service, the only non-family there were people that knew my father from his childhood; it is as if he just quit life a few decades before his death.  My mother was a straight up, vicious, vengeful, spiteful woman, whom I am sure today would have been diagnosed with some sort of psychological disorder requiring VERY close supervision.  Remarkably, my brother and sister and I all turned out acceptable for public interaction but it was not due to her efforts.  Unless my siblings received a familial gift that was kept from me, our parents never encouraged us to do anything productive, and never assisted in what we did pursue.  The end result for me was that I graduated from high school with ZERO, and I mean NADA, NULL, NIL, DONUT promise, potential or future…and the same amount of knowledge in how to pursue a future.  I DID know that I was in no way welcome to remain at “home” (my mother actually locked me out of the house on two occasions for being 15 minutes and five minutes late, respectively, for my 2200 curfew as a HS senior, who worked 40 hours a week, paid for my braces, clothes, school expenses, entertainment (such as it was), gas, insurance, car, and had chores around the house), NOR WOULD I HAVE WANTED TOO.

Even today, my youngest, who has lived in the relative lap of luxury as an only child, in my ex wifes’ nest, can hardly WAIT to get out on his own.  That is because all REAL people, with some dignity, go to school, finish, get a job, move out and get on with life (and apparently, this is a novel concept to some people....like getting a job, getting married and THEN having kids).

And yeah, I get it….the 30 year old in the story…his parents are criticized for tolerating it, for making life to easy for the kid, the chronological adult.  But…..that is bullshit.  This 30 year old (what do you call someone like this?  Kid?  Certainly “man” is not descriptive) is responsible.  He doesn’t behave like this thru lack of choice, but thru EXERCISING choice.  This DNA train wreck is doing this because HE CAN.  The man is devoid of dignity, of maturity.  And what did he say?  That he needed a six month notice to prepare?  Dude….you have had THIRTY DAMNED YEARS…..and not done shit.  YOU LEFT YOUR PARENTS WITH NO OPTIONS other than to take their own kid to court in an effort to force him to have a marginal amount of shame.

And the maneuver failed.  He is getting out….but the turd is going to APPEAL to force his parents to give him six more months of a free ride.  And don’t you find it telling that he has no friends willing to take him in?  No other family?  You know why?

Because he is a piece of shit.  And I have $10 that says that, if he ever voted….he voted democrat.

Kids…you do not BELONG in your parents house.  Hey, I get it…you are in transition, lost a job, are between postings…..a few weeks is a given.  I have three with their caravans….OF COURSE they would be welcome while they work to get back on track, or (as was in my case with my ex wifes family) while transitioning from station to station.  Of course they would be welcome.  But they do not BELONG here…..they BELONG in their own life…..in their own home.

This piece of crap in the story?  He is a disgrace.